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I Have Something To Say About Coronavirus / Covid19

My husband rarely has anything to do with me and my kids but now that we're all at home its harder to keep everyone safe.

My son will be 16 soon. He's autistic and loves his dad but he went to the grocery store with him and I had to do something to stop my husband from beating him with a belt.

My son locked himself in the bathroom and wouldn't come out for a very long time.

My husband wouldn't say what he did. My and my kids stop him from going out with his dad. He loves his dad but he doesn't love his son.

Another time, my son had a meltdown and he locked my son out of the house. My daughter cried and screamed as her brother was walking away. He's a runner. My husband laughed and laughed and laughed when he saw our son back in the house. My poor daughter was in tears and didn't calm down all the way for at least an hour.

She hates her dad to pieces. And I have to distract my husband with a religious discussion so that he won't do anything to her.

He's yanked on her ear before really badly.

He's been beaten by his family before. His dad was black and would beat him aggressively for small things.

He won't see reason and he doesn't respect me enough to think my words are very important.

I just hope that we can all heal from covid but I'm a little scared of how my husband will react from staying cooped up too long. And I know my family isn't the only one like this.
Berti33 · 36-40, F
It's really hard, a father doesn't know to behave with his children..
I feel pity.. you striving hard in home making... taking care of your children.
It seems there comes certain occasions in a woman's life that makes her to hate the men folk.🤔
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
I'm so sorry. I worried about people being stuck in the house together.
I was in an abusive relationship for years, with children too. There did come a time when I couldn't stay there one minute longer. All the reasons I had for staying seemed invalid, and like an excuse. I looked for help, and I accepted help because my children deserved so much more. I did too. It doesn't get better, it progressively gets worse.
Please remember:
You and your children deserve to be happy and healthy.
It doesn't sound like your husband sees his shortcomings, or will change.

I wish you strength, and a strong will. Keep your head up.
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
@rottenrobi -paws your leg-
curiosi · 61-69, F
I am so very sorry. I grew up in an abusive home (both parents). Things like this are what have been keeping me up at night. Many are against opening up but it's stories like this that convince me we must.
SmartKat · 61-69, F
Sooner or later, somebody will get sick and tired of being abused by your husband. Sooner or later, that person will strike back. Possibly with a weapon.
pampersmom11 · 26-30, F
No my bro a cop says he getting lot more calls like that
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@pampersmom11 its the saddest part of quarantine. I can't imagine how many of us are coming out of it worse.
pampersmom11 · 26-30, F
@darktippedrose i know i agree

 
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