I hate cancer
I went to see Dad this weekend. His decline in only a couple of weeks is so dramatic. I'd been warned but it was still a big shock.
My brother is asking for a leave of absence to move in with him. I really don't know what to do. We've had a strained relationship most my life at best and at times openly hostile. With his demise he's mellowed and I've been trying to forgive him but I still can't say it's easy being around him at times. There's also the association with drinking around him. He I know is one of my biggest triggers.
Whatever the end does appear now closer than I'd been ready to accept. My mum died of ovarian cancer 8 years ago but that took a long time and I got progressively more prepared. This is different.
I've text my boss to have a meeting only so he knows what's going on and that okay have to disappear suddenly.
My brother is asking for a leave of absence to move in with him. I really don't know what to do. We've had a strained relationship most my life at best and at times openly hostile. With his demise he's mellowed and I've been trying to forgive him but I still can't say it's easy being around him at times. There's also the association with drinking around him. He I know is one of my biggest triggers.
Whatever the end does appear now closer than I'd been ready to accept. My mum died of ovarian cancer 8 years ago but that took a long time and I got progressively more prepared. This is different.
I've text my boss to have a meeting only so he knows what's going on and that okay have to disappear suddenly.
