I need to go no contact with my mother,
My mother is learning fast that I no longer have the patience for her bullshit the past couple of months since I cussed her out bad on voicemail when I was taken by ambulance on may 26th when she didn't answer her phone because she was on the phone to a friend that any call could be an emergency and to stop ignoring my calls without a legitimate reason. Yesterday she agreed to us getting grocery store Chinese deli because I had to pick up some things while there today she said she didn't feel, like Chinese or the other hot deli food
It wasn't until we got back to my place she asked if there was a cart in the breezeway of my building, there was, I put my stuff in it, she then said she had a headache and was going to culver's and "relax". Hopefully I got on her case enough today that she rethinks her helping me schedule wise, she's narcisstic enough that she'll most likely assume I'll beg for her help to get me to my chemos and 3rd day follow ups to remove the 46 hour slow pumps and then iron infusions after it's removed, which I will say I can do it on my own. Her and I clashed in the emergency room over my cell phone, I had to hand it over when they did my xray in the room, she did now want to give it back, I had to threaten to oull out my iv and walk id she didn't give it back, I said this with docs and nurses in the room, she glared at me giving it back. We clashed before and after my colonoscopy and surgery in front of docs, nurses, CNAs, and other staff in my hospital rooms while I was admitted, we clashed during my discharge, we clashed last thursday after my ct scan in front of one of the scan nurses and other patients in the waiting room, and we clashed today several times, the last one she insisted on pushing me in the wheelchair I was using to the front entrance after seeing financial assistance and a social worker at the end of my orientation, DESPITE their shared office NEXT to the entrance/exit, AND the social worker asking how far I can walk without assistance, I said to the store several blocks away, I insisted on walking out DESPITE my mother's protests, IN FRONT OF the social worker, I still got up and walked out to her suv, saying I need the exercise My mother hates me having my independence, that I only really need her for the rides for errands and appointments, NOT for everything else.
It wasn't until we got back to my place she asked if there was a cart in the breezeway of my building, there was, I put my stuff in it, she then said she had a headache and was going to culver's and "relax". Hopefully I got on her case enough today that she rethinks her helping me schedule wise, she's narcisstic enough that she'll most likely assume I'll beg for her help to get me to my chemos and 3rd day follow ups to remove the 46 hour slow pumps and then iron infusions after it's removed, which I will say I can do it on my own. Her and I clashed in the emergency room over my cell phone, I had to hand it over when they did my xray in the room, she did now want to give it back, I had to threaten to oull out my iv and walk id she didn't give it back, I said this with docs and nurses in the room, she glared at me giving it back. We clashed before and after my colonoscopy and surgery in front of docs, nurses, CNAs, and other staff in my hospital rooms while I was admitted, we clashed during my discharge, we clashed last thursday after my ct scan in front of one of the scan nurses and other patients in the waiting room, and we clashed today several times, the last one she insisted on pushing me in the wheelchair I was using to the front entrance after seeing financial assistance and a social worker at the end of my orientation, DESPITE their shared office NEXT to the entrance/exit, AND the social worker asking how far I can walk without assistance, I said to the store several blocks away, I insisted on walking out DESPITE my mother's protests, IN FRONT OF the social worker, I still got up and walked out to her suv, saying I need the exercise My mother hates me having my independence, that I only really need her for the rides for errands and appointments, NOT for everything else.
