Some people claim to be sick but they know

how to constantly try to win an argument. If I was sick I wouldn’t have the energy to act like a defense lawyer for myself and others. I have a family member like that. Soo damn annoying because they don’t know everything so stop acting like you fgggg do. They make millions of stupid mistakes all the time and think something is wrong with me.

*They give others heart attacks.*

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MoonlightLullaby

I'm sorry you've experienced this treatment from family. How disheartening.💖......

SW-User

True, when I’m tired I can hardly do anything expect lay on the couch.I get stressed from arguing and it takes a toll on my mental health. @MoonlightLullaby

MoonlightLullaby

@SW-User Understandbly so. Arguing is extremely taxing on the mind & body. I have a family member like that & it's all attention based. She's always sick with something but ready to strike & pounce at any given time. Like an emotional vampire.

SW-User

Ugh, I know how that feels. It’s best we try to limit the time we spend with them if they are going to stress us out. I just can’t handle it anymore. It’s either a positive conversation or nothing. @MoonlightLullaby

AnthonyM987 · 51-55, M

@SW-User Now you are on to something 😊 It has to be a conversation where both sides feel they are honored even if they are on opposite ends of the spectrum. Your family member should be willing to grant you that courtesy

MoonlightLullaby

@SW-User I can't take the negativity and drama anymore myself. I worked hard to claw myself out of cynism and I won't tolerate those that can't do that for themselves, much less me.

SW-User

True, we can’t stay buried in negative thoughts and attitudes. Negativity drains the blood out of our veins. It blurs our minds and ruins lives. Sigh, some people live to try and make others suffer. @MoonlightLullaby