I'm almost 27 and I'm still a virgin.

It is kind of starting to bother me.I'm not the most handsome guy but neither the ugliest.I was always a bit shy didn't go out much.I did have one girlfriend so far.I wasn't into hookups and stuff mostly cause I always wanted to wait for a special girl.But I don't is there a point in waiting anymore.Or should I just pay for sex or have a hookup?

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midnightrose · F

Are you worried that special girl may not ever come and you'll never get to experience sex? I guess I would ask what your purpose in having sex would be? Would it be to experience the physical pleasure or would it be experience that pleasure with somebody you care about? Because those two experiences are different, imo.

justme21 · 26-30, M

@midnightrose Yes I am worried that O might never find real love.Idk I'm confused I would definetly like to do it with that special girl.But Idk what'a the point of waiting anymore? And sex is a need after all

midnightrose · F

@justme21 I think once you figure out what purpose sex serves for you, you can make that decision. If sex is a need, how can you fulfill that need and can you do so while waiting for that special person?