My husband wants to see me with other men

And I am not exactly sure how I feel about it. He has been open about it and I feel like it is coming from a place of love but I still cannot fully understand his intentions and whether or not I should seriously consider this. Any help or advice would be amazing!

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Pretzel · 70-79, M

I've seen posts from women that enjoy it - and appreciate their husband's allowing them to be with other men.

But here's the thing - they want to do it.

If you aren't saying "yup, wanna try it" in your head when he talks about it - don't.

it's your body and you have the right to do it or not do it. if you feel like he's pressuring you - tell him to back off.

let is stew in your head and if you decide you like the idea try it

I've also seen posts where women have tried it and didn't like the experience.

So again - if your heart and mind isn't into it (or any other sexual activity) - don't.