Honestly speaking , if your having even the slightest doubt... its a very bad idea. Within the safe confines of a Marriage There are two types of fantasies to play out -
The Real ..or the Make believe. Difference is " real can never be unseen or undone ...
Make believe you both get deeply involved ..enjoy , keep, or discard and move on to the next idea. All it takes is a really good imagination. Joyful experiences shared and not the slightest harm done .
Your husband ought to respect the fact that you dont wish to have sex with other men. Instead he should be encouraged to relay in detail to you his ' fantasy ' discuss it while you role play ..encourage him to let it all out , play with the outcome .. over time many different scenarios.
Until its an harmless act .. which as completely fulfiled its purpose.
Having persevered your dignity & enhanced your Marriage.
Please dont take the lazy way out , but getting other men / or persons involved.
Theres really no need 👾
