My husband wants to see me with other men

And I am not exactly sure how I feel about it. He has been open about it and I feel like it is coming from a place of love but I still cannot fully understand his intentions and whether or not I should seriously consider this. Any help or advice would be amazing!

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WonderGirl ·

If you do his I feel he will regret this in the long run.

Justme264 · 70-79, M

@WonderGirl quite possibly!

metamorphosis · 22-25, F

@WonderGirl that is my biggest concern too

WonderGirl ·

@metamorphosis It sounds risky to me. My friend had a 3-some, and her husband couldn't get over seeing her with another man later. She enjoyed it too much. 😔

WayneRuss · M

@metamorphosis the thing to do would be to start small…..maybe just flirting or making out. No farther than it. See how hubby is able to handle that. You two discuss afterwards.

WonderGirl ·

@WayneRuss I think it will be hard to stop once she starts.

WayneRuss · M

@WonderGirl I think she’ll be able to stop if she feels it will threaten the relationship. But I understand what you’re saying. Part of the initial ground rules should be to stop if either partner feels uncomfortable with continuing.

WonderGirl ·

@WayneRuss She feels it will threaten the relationship that's why she's asking for advice.

WayneRuss · M

@WonderGirl yes I realize this. I was assuming that both agreed to give it a try. Maybe it goes ok for a while, but then one of them starts feeling threatened by it and wants it to stop.