My husband wants to see me with other men

And I am not exactly sure how I feel about it. He has been open about it and I feel like it is coming from a place of love but I still cannot fully understand his intentions and whether or not I should seriously consider this. Any help or advice would be amazing!

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IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F

It's a catch-22, I'm afraid. P*rn has become so accessible that sexual exploration with partners outside of your relationship has practically become like the next food trip.

Once you cross that bridge, there's no telling what it would do to your relationship permanently.

You have all the sound advice you need. He's not coming from a place of love if he insists.

Magenta · F

@IamCuriousBabe Spot on.

metamorphosis · 22-25, F

@IamCuriousBabe thank you so much for this perspective!!

IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F

@metamorphosis I suggest that you open your mind and heart to exploring ways to keep the spark between the two of you. Intimacy isn't limited to the physical though.

metamorphosis · 22-25, F

@IamCuriousBabe that is so true!

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@IamCuriousBabe It has nothing to do with porn, he may be bisexual or curious or maybe he's a switch where he's submissive and dominate but his submissive side wants to be humiliated by the wife occasionally. It could also be about control.

That's not really porn related necessarily

IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F

@SatanBurger You probably haven't seen porn lately. Or you haven't been around young people these days. Before your average guy gets acquainted with kink, he would have been exposed to porn, probably even before they ever start drinking.