My husband wants to see me with other men

And I am not exactly sure how I feel about it. He has been open about it and I feel like it is coming from a place of love but I still cannot fully understand his intentions and whether or not I should seriously consider this. Any help or advice would be amazing!

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Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F

He may want it, but it is 100% your choice. A long discussion is appropriate then go with your gut.

metamorphosis · 22-25, F

@Pinkstarburst I agree completely! I am most worried about him, and I’ve explained this to him. I am not sure he really would be able to handle this and would be overcome with jealousy

SomeMichGuy · M

@metamorphosis Trust that! This is NOT for everyone!

Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F

@metamorphosis He should know that a fantasy isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

SomeMichGuy · M

@Pinkstarburst👆👆👆

The perfection of fantasy, which by its nature comes with "rose-colored glasses", often gives way to the sad soberness of the reality you have to acknowledge as it sits before you.

@metamorphosis, consider if you REALLY like the guy, the experience, and you want to see HIM more, and see OTHERS...

There are some bells which ought to remain unrung.