Swap wife - first time with couple

We are planning a wife swap. Full swap. All are consenting. However the ladies have both made a request to get to know the gents first.
They know each other well but not on that level, just as friends. They need alone time with couples swapped, not to do anything but just to kinda get to know each other more personal. So coffee dates are out ofnthe question but maybe something similar whereby after they can have a few moments just alone and more personal.
The experts amongst us can share some idea or suggestion

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Tahitiangrandma · 61-69, F

Why just why? It's bad enough about the sex with a stranger part? But you want the people to actually know about each other risking caring about another person other than the one you supposed to be with. Because what you are proposing is a date in all actuality dating leads to liking then hopefully loving someone. You are in essence giving the milk the cow the everything away. Are you all just done with each other and this is a way to end it or something? Because this is definitely how things end. No need to interview beforehand if one doesn't want the action or participation in the act they shouldn't do it. That can and should be figured out rather quickly without needing a get to know you session