I remember when I was a lil kid, there was this girl I used to be mean to sometimes

@MorbidCynic dang, sorry that happened to you, although, I don't think violence should be suggested as a good solution. I was called names by girls also, which brought my self esteem down, although I didn't resort to hitting them for that.

Violence was the only way I got the bullies to stop. The school/teachers did nothing when I told them. @Andromedanian

@MorbidCynic well yeah, that's a fair point, I went through a lot of bullying myself and yeah, most teachers didn't care. Although it was more serious stuff, not just me getting called names.

Eh, either way, just wanted to get y'all's opinion, I still think it wasn't good on the teacher to suggest violence, specially if he noticed the behavior, should have reprimanded me in some other more civilized manner, not teaching girls it's okay to hit guys if they're disrespectful, as not everyone will take it

@Andromedanian to me the insults were very serious. I was already being abused at home. So when a boy threatened to rape me (middle school boys are the worst) despite not knowing I was being abused at home, I lost my crap. Words can cause long lasting damage. Especially if you are doing it without the knowledge of what’s going behind closed doors. People really underestimate that. I suppose ig wasn’t appropriate for a professional. Even as an adult though, I think what some people really need is a good ass kicking.

@MorbidCynic Dang, yes well, I mean, I agree that is definitelly crossing the line, I'd never say that to anyone, in any scenario, let alone just to bully them. I agree with you almost entirely, still think the teacher's response was far from professional but yeah, bullying sucks. I do have my own share of psychological traume that probably originated from bullying and rejection.