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Is flirting cheating? Like, if your partner flirted with other people, would it bother you?

I know a guy who constantly flirts with girls and gets flirted with but he has a girlfriend. He said it's not a big deal but I think it is? We're friends and get flirty with each other but I didnt know he had a gf until today. I feel kinda gross about it
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UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
He's disrespecting his girlfriend and also whoever he's flirting with.
@UltimateDemiGoddess well your tolerance is quite high when your so called bf treats you like a doormat and you are still there.

You must preach what you practice not otherwise.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Royricky09 I do practice what I preach and have made it known to him on several occasions. It's just taking a while to break up that's all.
@UltimateDemiGoddess it's quite simple. Read this again and again till you get it.

what you are not changing, you ARE CHOOSING
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Royricky09 no thank you. It's not that simple at the moment. My feelings are well known and stances have been made within reason.
@UltimateDemiGoddess that's just an excuse. You know it quite well.
You don't have to convince me, you just need to realize how it is hurting your self-esteem and self respect or whatever is left of it.

Again.... No boundaries were set, so it's quite simple. You reap what you sow
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Royricky09 I don't have to explain to you. I'll leave when I'm ready and my feelings are known.

No boundaries were set as (again) she didn't know he was in a relationship.
@UltimateDemiGoddess I was talking about you. Not her...
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Royricky09 oh in my case there are boundaries and my feelings are known. I'm not going into detail about that with you though. My situation is completely different from hers and shouldn't be discussed on her post, it's rude.
@UltimateDemiGoddess fair enough. I messaged you.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@Royricky09 I didn't receive a message
@UltimateDemiGoddess sent an hour ago. It must be in requests folder
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@UltimateDemiGoddess try sending me a message