Is flirting cheating? Like, if your partner flirted with other people, would it bother you?

I know a guy who constantly flirts with girls and gets flirted with but he has a girlfriend. He said it's not a big deal but I think it is? We're friends and get flirty with each other but I didnt know he had a gf until today. I feel kinda gross about it

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Royricky09

Ofcourse it is gross.... Well no offense, you allowed it in the first place. Isn't it

LadyGemini · F

@Royricky09 Can you read?

Royricky09

@LadyGemini

We're friends and get flirty with each other

Yes... Read your line..

Royricky09

@LadyGemini messaged you

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@Royricky09 she didn't find out until today that he has a gf. From the sounds of it, she's stopped. What's your problem? 🙄

Royricky09

@UltimateDemiGoddess what's your problem?

Friends don't flirt. What kinda friendship is that?
Ofcourse the right boundaries weren't set in the first place.

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@Royricky09 it starts off as being friends. Youre commenting as if she knowingly did it when she clearly didn't know.

Royricky09

@UltimateDemiGoddess okay.... But why flirt with a friend.????
It simply doesn't matter if she knew about the gf or not. And what kinda friend he is, who didn't mention about having a gf already. Now you probably know why....

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@Royricky09 okay now I'm assuming that she didn't mean friend, she probably meant colleague/acquaintance that she was friendly with. But that's just going into too much detail. All I know is in many cases it starts as friends.

Royricky09

@UltimateDemiGoddess that's quite immature.....there's always a catch.