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So I have a situation and I have questions for the guys here..

So a couple of days ago I had a cable guy come round to fit a new wifi hub. So we got chatting and i asked about his tattoos and I showed him mine well the ones on my arm. Before he left he said if I had any more problems I have his mobile number. My tv was playing up but he thought he'd fixed it. I asked his name and told him mine, then he left. Ten minutes later my tv was freezing up so I called him and he came back round. I apologised for being a pain and he cracked a joke about he could say its because im a woman then he teased that he's only joking. Anyway he fit a new cable then left. An hour later he text me to see if the tv was still ok. He reminded me that I have his number. I thanked him by text and he put back happy to help 😊. I wondered if hes just doing his job or is he flirting with me. So i decided to text him and see. I just offered him a coffee/ tea if hes in the area if he texts me to see if i'm in. I put no pressure just if you'd like to and tc m8 at the end. Am I being too forward and giving the wrong impression? Or does that sound ok? What would you think if a woman text you that? I'm just trying to be friendly, but I admit yes I did like him. He hasn't replied yet it says not delivered yet. Its his work phone so its probably off over the weekend. I have social anxiety so now I'm stressing that I did the wrong thing.. I hope not lol.
SammyJo · 51-55, F
Flirting is good!

Sounds like you both were nice, polite and respectful. Good to message and ask.....and hope he answers!

Hope you make a connection...and I don't just mean cable! Lol !

🥰

SJD xx
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@SammyJo yes it would be nice and lol
SSDecontrol · 56-60, M
@RubiesandButterflies

Just don't watch "The Cable Guy" before going out 😵‍💫
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
Sapio · 51-55, M
I don't think you overstepped any boundaries. I think you went about things in a polite manner, very friendly and respectful. You did it the right way.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@Sapio oh good ty
Sapio · 51-55, M
@RubiesandButterflies you're welcome. Give it till Monday afternoon. I'm sure he'll reply.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@Sapio ty I will
Ontheroad · M
You didn't do anything wrong... when you click with someone you do. I'm sure he was flattered. Just be sure he isn't partnered up and have fun!
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@Ontheroad ok ty
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Sounds ok to me. Respect to you for trying.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
Yes you are flirting. lol
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@SomeMichGuy thanks 😁
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RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@SomeMichGuy 😂 don't worry I won't lol
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
You haven’t stepped over any barriers, it’s a great offer. It would seem he was enamoured by your openness, so let it run and see where it goes!
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@Quimliqer ok thanks.
Softy1 · M
He was flirting a little. He might be the flirting type or he just wants you to be his next number he marks down.
You did exactly what he was trying for.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@Softy1 yes maybe we'll see what happens.
SSDecontrol · 56-60, M
Nothing wrong at all. Most guys love it when women show interest. And not play games about it

Keep us up to date
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@SSDecontrol great thanks 😁
BigandHard1 · 36-40, M
I lile forward woman that make their interest known so I don't have to guess if she's interested.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@BigandHard1 great ty 😁
You did nothing wrong.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
IM5688 · 61-69, M
IDK, sounds like you are flirting and are quite interested in this guy, but your profile says that you are engaged. Hmmm.
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@IM5688 i was but my boyfriend passed away
IM5688 · 61-69, M
@RubiesandButterflies Sorry to hear that...okay, continue flirting...lol
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@IM5688 i will
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Sounds like he was being a bit flirty but it’s hard to say if he was overdoing it as I was not there to see. Have you looked into his background at all?
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@Moneyonmymind no I don't know a surname or anything so no idea how to do that.
candycane · 31-35, F
You did nothing wrong, except asked if he was taken
RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F
@candycane ok thanks I just got nervous after I sent it lol

 
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