I have no ability to flirt with women.

Working at this casino I’ve come to that realization with the fact that every other day I have some woman hitting on me and I’m completely clueless on how to respond.

Last week the new cafe girl exited the cafe to go to the prep room and she stopped to talk to me by the front door. She was giving me that look. You know. The look of interest. She asked me, “How much sweet talking you do with that voice, hun?”

Having idea what to say I blurted out honestly. “Not that much.”

She looked at me confused like she was thinking, Seriously? That’s your reply? In a panic I tried to fix the situation and added, “but I should do more!”

Gah! I’m so lame. 🤦 Nothing in life has prepared me for this!

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Repete · 70-79, M

I never was any good at flirting really, I always second guessed myself and was afraid of going to far 😂 I settled on just talking and somehow it works better for me, starting slow . If they start fast I’m lost also.

Reject · 26-30, M

@Repete Same here. Taking it slow and just talking is good advice. Problem is with some of these women they don’t waste any time! They’re out here asking me to walk to them to their car and stuff. Saying the way I cross my arms is cute. Trying to give me their number. I’m just a security guard trying to do my job. 😳

Repete · 70-79, M

@Reject it didn’t help much with me , I didn’t smoke or do much drinking so I was an outsider basically and it took time but finally I did meet a great lady that liked some of the things I liked .

Reject · 26-30, M

@Repete I don’t smoke or drink either. Being in a casino where those things are the social norm, it makes me stand out a bit. So I get that. I’m happy you found someone though. How old were you when you met her?

Repete · 70-79, M

@Reject I knew her when I was around 18 but only as a friends sister we talked a little then I went into the Marines for 4 years then we sort of met again and got together and had a beautiful daughter .