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Do you think it’s possible that my

Optometrist was flirting with me….?
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Was he making eyes at you?
Mindful · 56-60, F
@PhoenixPhail he was laughing loudly, reacting to everything I said, he shared that he was dating, mentioned apples, somehow got me to share some of my sensitivity to voices, asked information, somehow got me to talk about my travel plans, but it’s probably standard. Questioning, right? He shared that when meeting others he always wondering if something is wrong with him first….
Maybe it’s just standard get your customer to talk first….just blah blah blah

I don’t look men in the eyes, I can blush in a heart beat…and don’t want to be vulneerable…
@Mindful He sounds unpracticed at being professional. He could also be nervous or lonely, and be fishing for friendly connections.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@PhoenixPhail he’s nervous maybe, but I think he is just psycho analyzing and making a medical diagnosis. But he asks in a way that is very… much like a medical doctor who is an expert at making diagnosis, like Dr. House, and he’s trying to figure out how best to treat you based on your daily diet? He said my eyes indicate they are experiencing pressure, and that pressure can affect my eyes. So he definitely spun me around in circles, to diagnose whether or not I might have glaucoma. But he did it in a “Columbo” detective fashion where he is having a conversation with you and it doesn’t make sense and at the end, he makes his point. But there’s no need to confess to me that you are dating……I wish I could watch his patterns w patients. Now he has me curious. and I just want to tell him, “ you probably watched too much “Columbo”, and “MurderShe Wrote” where there’s a grand finale or revelation: you may have glaucoma, and we won’t know until you come back and I can compare data! Dah-tum!
Dude, why did you spin me around round into weird conversation like that! It’s clever, but, still like really? I practically told you my whole life story and now I’m picturing dying berries in your fridge and apples on your countertop because they are your favorite!