If someone asks you out on a date, are you filled with intense positivity to the point where you actively block any semblence of reality etc.?
I've never been asked on a date, and success with asking other people out on dates is not something I can measure in whole numbers as a percentage, so I have almost zero experience with what it's like to have feelings of positive elation around dating, etc.
The topic of the questions operates with the premise that you, as the recipient of the date proposal, said yes. 8-) If you said no, why?
Women have a whole encyclopedia of reasons they use to reject date proposals from men. Is it any different if a woman is asked on a date by another woman?