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Is she not interested....?

Hi, I met someone at work who comes in regularly and we've been chatting it up for about a month or so. Well, yesterday I mustered up the courage to ask her out for coffee and she agreed. I gave her my number and she texted me the next hour, which I thought were some pretty big green flags. But the conversation we had was..... well, pretty dry. I was the one asking her questions for like, 90% of the time and her schedule seems to be hectic, saying if Thursday or Friday doesn’t work for her it might need to wait until next week. Then we talked about our pets + how we unwind before the conversation sort of just.... stopped.

I know that this is only the first exchange, and she was probably tired from babysitting + subbing at work. But i cant help but feel like maybe she isnt interested. I'm used to people giving me subjefts to discuss when they're interested but she didn't really do any of that or make any effort to continue the conversation after talking about our comfort shows.

How should I approach this? Should I iust wait & see if she reaches out today or tomorrow?
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No silly, you should tell her what you noticed first about her, what you like.

"You know when I first saw you, it was your hair that really got me interested, you have amazing hair"
"It was your smile that really got me interested in you, you were talking to someone else and when you smiled the room lit up"
"I love your style, hard working, beautiful, helpful, friendly, what is your secret to being so amazing?"

Maybe she thinks you are boring too.. she might be comparing you to her rodeo boyfriend from the past that she still loves and yawning.
TheMasterMan1 · 26-30, M
@MisterBander Idk i feel like thats laying it on a little too hard. I might just give it some time & see if she gets back to me. If she doesnt, then I have my answer ig
@TheMasterMan1 All you can do is do your best, so if waiting for her to make a move is your best, then that is what you should do. ;)
Or you can go for it and maybe make a new friend and have some fun.