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greencompass I appreciate it especially that you're experienced in the dating scene and enjoy it.
The reason I enjoy it is because I discovered a social tactic during my teen years called 'the art of manifestation'. It works on the premise that we are what we 'think', we have what we 'think' and we always attract to ourselves that which we 'think'.
With that in mind, you will either attract or repel, it's always one or the other.
That is why blind dating or using dating apps is so completely unnecessary.
I'm not wanting to tell you what to do here, but going to a movie on a 'first date' is actually a waste of valuable time... regardless of where that movie is being played. As long as your attention is focused on the movie, you are not focused on each other. At the end of the movie, you still don't really know each other. Awkward moments follow.
Watch a movie at his house after you've dated a few times, but never on a first date is my recommendation.
Secondly, going to HIS place to watch a Netflix movie the first time you meet the guy is not even recommended by the police. The problem is, because you agreed to be inside his residence, it also means from a legal perspective that you are 'consenting' to whatever takes place inside HIS home.
If you get raped while in his residence, you'll have a hard time explaining your case if you ever reported it, assuming you were still alive after the fact and were able to report it.
If you really are needing to watch a movie with him, that should only be done in a movie theater, not his house, since you don't know the guy. Besides, if things go sour inside the movie theater, you can always walk out and call a taxi to take you home but that may not be so easy if you're inside his house.
