Why do average women get shitty when non-Chad types have the guts to approach them and say hello?

@Dcat83 Nearly all women filter men on dating sites selecting only men 6 ft or above. That's common knowledge and borne out by facts. Everyone knows women universally crave a man with a toned gym figure, average or larger bits, taller than them, and lots of money and time to give to them. The question is - what does a woman bring to the table in return?

My second ex pretended for a bit but once her hypocrisy became clear it was obvious that she was offering me nothing (not even sex from the day she found out she was pregnant with our daughter in late 2016). My first ex cheated on me with the then-neighbour.

Because I do shiftwork and the rest of my time is for my daughter now, I don't have time or money to invest in dating and it doesn't matter how decent of a man I am. Because I'm well under 6 ft, etc. I'm invisible to basically all potentially available single women I come across, and dating sites which are toxic as shit to the max prove that to be basically true.

I've tried dating a lot since leaving my second ex and it always comes down to not being able to meet women's insane standards while they won't give anything back thinking their body is the only thing they have to give to a man in a relationship.

Everyone's experiences are different. Mine are framed on real experiences and backed up by much of the anecdotal, semi-scientific, and scientific studies that makes up the body of validated evidence.

'Chad' is the *standard term* for describing the unicorn manotype that women crave. Women absolutely do rate men against a 'checklist' of criteria, and are *never* able to be fully trusted in a relationship regardless how solid it seems. I know.

@Dcat83 My daughter asks me sometimes why I do not have a girlfriend. My usual answer is just "I don't want one".

Her mum had a rebound relationship after me with an ex high school friend who has a daughter about 10 yr older than ours but that ended after about a year. She's also still single apparently.

I don't push my beliefs about dating and relationships, etc. on others - just state them and let them stand on their own.