I am so glad that I'm not out there dating with no back up network of friends.

It's a harsh and sometimes pretty bleak state of affairs. It can be hard on your self worth, patience and energy levels. Trying to have multiple conversations and keep the interest up with strangers. It's really not natural. In real life, you would be putting your efforts into one person who had caught your eye, not 6.

I am tired and I really don't feel like I am getting anywhere. I feel apathy, and this should be exciting.

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

You should just message a lot of people in the beginning to feel their vibe, and then you pick the most promising one to have full on discussions with. Dating isn't a multi-tasking process, you will wear yourself out and end up having terribly boring conversations 😅

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@MartinTheFirst I am at the beginning lol, I am messaging the ones I like. It's really hard to get most of these guys to have a decent conversation.