I think i am repelling positive/good men

It's like only bad men or emotionally unavailable men coming in my life and no good men. I sometimes feel i am repelling good men, how can i attrcat good men and stop repelling them?

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SomeMichGuy · M

Check your deordorant; did you get "Male Repellent" by mistake? There you go.
😉🤣

Seriously, perhaps you are being too...desperate. Women often complain about men being like this. It can go the other way.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy yes i consider myself rather desperate

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy i think "good men repellent" and "bad men attracter" deordorants i am using 😂

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 Well, if you got a laugh out of this, remember that, ok? Things are often not as bleak as we think.

Please know that there must be people who would value youn if they got to know you. 😊

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy yes... i need to be positive

I think maybe it's good to show our flaws too at first itself as much as possible if we like someone and see how they respond?

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 I'm not sure about "as much as possible", but being open that you are a human beingn and--as such--have weaknesses as well as strengths...that's fine.

I'd say a better phrase is:

Just be yourself; if you put on a dating persona and a guy falls in love with "her", that doesn't help YOU.