Deal breakers in dating

Is it strange that I only have two deal breakers when it comes to dating, like they are non negotiables? I have asked a couple of people and they both said they have a whole bunch. 😲 and I am thinking I wonder if they know what an actual deal breaker is lol, for example I am willing to compromise or work on things with ppl but the other two are major for me.

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NerdyPotato · M

Sounds like they have really high standards they want to be met from the start without work.

JaneCas · 26-30, F

@NerdyPotato what do you mean by “they want to be met from the start without work?”

NerdyPotato · M

@JaneCas exactly the way I said it. They don't want to work to have their standards met, they just want someone who already meets their standards before they ever saw each other and not make any compromises.

JaneCas · 26-30, F

@NerdyPotato thank you for clarifying

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NerdyPotato · M

@SomeMichGuy I don't know if their motive is staying single. I just meant they want the perfect relationship with no effort, or indeed nothing at all if any effort is needed otherwise.

SomeMichGuy · M

@NerdyPotato Yes, I think it can go two ways.

But they think perfection will just fall in their lap because they demand it.

NerdyPotato · M

@SomeMichGuy that's a better summary of what I meant indeed.