For all the beautiful women all over the Interwebs, I still don't know how to approach same in real life with any confidence

Sad but true fact of being single at 55 with no romantic action for coming up on 7 yrs due to being a spicy neuro-divergent part-time shiftworker single dad of an almost 7 y/o girl.

I'm a 'poster child' of the Alice Deejay 'better off alone' movement I think.

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Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

Women are attracted to confidence. Work on yourself physically, financially, spiritually and mentally. Approaching women in your state of mind is crazy! They can smell the desperation on you.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Quetzalcoatlus Lifting what? I'm not sacrificing my kids for the sake of sex/dating/etc.

Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

@zonavar68 Weights! Hit the gym! Start taking your manhood back!

Learn a martial art or take up boxing. Your kids would love it!

Adogslife · 61-69, M

@Quetzalcoatlus @zonavar68 I’d add one more thing, therapy. Your mind and body work as one. Establish daily goals for both your mental and physical health.

Never fail to try. That’s a sin to you and your children. Fight everyday to be a better you. It’s only going to take 60 - 90 days to see and feel a massive change. But, after just a month, you’re going to feel it. Health and confidence are going to breakthrough.

It’s actually easy to reinvent the best you. Give yourself a few months of focusing on mental and physical health (and diet). Cut back on your carb and sugar intake.

Bring the newer you to the dating table. You’ll be fine. 👍🏻

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