Is this what physically fit people mean when they tell overweight people to get in shape?

Every time I’m on some forum, in public, or just hear the topic come up it pisses me off. When someone that is overweight or out of shape asks for dating advice the first thing someone tells them is to lose weight. When someone sees an overweight person in a relationship with someone that is skinny or physically fit people ask how the overweight person got with the skinny person. It seems like skinny or physically fit people act like overweight people have to lose weight or be in good shape to deserve love or be worthy of a relationship.

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in10RjFox · M

Wrong strategy to put pictures online for dating. Instead attract attention by your posts or conversation and chat up.

It's a myth that gals look for men in shape and that's why you get such replies. Also it's not advisable to ask for dating advice as none have experience and if they have they would not be replying to you.

So learn it yourself. It's just like how you learn to cycle or swim.