It's a new beginning and you are totally blank. No clue of what's ahead with the mind just not settling anywhere. Whether to hide in life or be somewhere or everywhere.
To find someone who you need, you will answer I don't need anyone..
To find someone who needs you? What if he pretends to need me ?
Some suggestions move ahead are
Whether you want another marriage or wish to just have a companion
Don't hope to find any in particular but just float to see what destiny unfolds for you.
Don't use unnecessary terms of endearment or be extra nice to people.
It's all like the day you lost your virginity.. its scary no more after.
Take precautions but don't quote that as a reason to turn down. How your mind thinks should not come out through your mouth.
Avoid those who want to meet at once.. gradually progress in stages. You can know a person by the way they write or express.
