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Ducky · 31-35, F
It’s an open marriage.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Ducky an open marriage is a typical example of an oxymoron....dont you think so?
Ducky · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver No, I don’t.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Ducky how is it marriage, if you are allowed to have sex with others.....
Ducky · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver Lolwut? Marriage has never been defined by how many people you have sex with. In fact, having multiple partners or even spouses in a marriage is nothing new.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Ducky so if you could have multiple partners why commit to one in marriage and be seeing others as sexual partners?
Ducky · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver Why not?
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Ducky If you cant commit to one partner why be in marriage in the first place.....why not be in a polygamous relationship if that’s what you want
Ducky · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver You clearly don’t think it makes sense. Well, maybe I don’t think your reasoning makes sense. Let’s just agree to disagree.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Ducky no i just want to understand the reasoning behind being in an open marriage..
Ducky · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver I don’t think you’re going to and that’s okay. And tbh, I don’t really like where you’re going with you telling me I can’t commit to one relationship. Sounding a bit judgmental, so… yeah. Let’s just end the exchange here.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Ducky ok !
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Ducky I agree, people can be very narrow minded when it comes to relationships; they can't break free from what they are brought up believing in and can't see that their opinions are part of social conditioning.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M