I've been in a situation like this. My best friend introduced me to her boyfriend and I immediately fell in love with him. All three of us secretly knew for a while that he should be with me instead. That was a painful time. Thankfully me and him finally went on a date, slept together, and he broke up with her the next day. We recently celebrated our first anniversary and I've never been happier 🥰

My reaction doesn’t matter much. I can’t control who likes whom.

My only choice is to lose both of them or keep my friend. Depends on my personality.

Nobody OWES me because I like him and he doesn’t like me back. The nonsensical reaction is to blame the woman because I didn’t get what I want. Seeing two people fight over a third person is one of the silliest things I’ve ever seen.

I think a little of both honestly, but I would have to wish them the best and move on with my life.