Have people always been weird or is it the reality of dating apps?

I got casually told she liked to be electrocuted and hit in the face 👀 apparently this is a cool thing to tell somebody you want a long term commitment with 😂

Last person seemed great, 2 great dates, then told me she split up with her kids father 2 months ago and is in therapy for serious stuff, then never heard from her again.

Another one we got on really well, then I found out she wore a girdle and was actually pretty overweight went to her house and spent most of the time crapping on men.

What is up with dating dude 😬