Why do some guys try way too hard?

That's immaturity.

I honestly started reading this and thought it was going to be about the guys that do a lot to show genuine feeling or show that they care about a woman they're interested in.
For this, I'd simply say look at the direction of their focus. If they are constantly saying "Look at me" with their actions but in the way of "You should choose me because look at how awesome I am," they're trying to convince themselves that they are worth it. Ironically that makes them unworthy.
However, if a man is saying "Look at me" through the lens of "You should choose me because I've chosen you and this is how much I'm willing to do to show you how invested I am in you," then they are showing you they are confident in themselves and their value and they just want to show it to you in a more comprehensive way. Some guys just try too hard in the wrong ways. If it comes from a place of genuineness though, I personally don't believe there is such thing as trying too hard. There are definitely levels to it and one can go overboard due to a personal insecurity, but genuine guys who aren't insecure will let you know how they feel about you with their actions rather than their words.

Immaturity and lack of confidence

I always believed that regardless how pretty or beautiful someone is they are somebody’s ex …especially once your age get into and above 20’s.

That’s just the facts lol

That’s me, so me, I’m so good at that.. my introversion never gets in the way of that at all..

🤔 hmmm..

I’m pretty sure it’s more fun to be that way online.. 👀🥤 idk why anyone would want to do any of that stuff in real life.. like maybe the “see my watch!” Thing could be ADD.. my cousin was like that but he was just extremely excitable all the time..

You make him nervous.

Insecure

It’s gives women an excuse to talk to them which opens the door for them to talk to the women. I know it’s annoying. I was in college once… it’s one ways of getting the women to come to you.

Some do, and it's cringe seeing it. They don't how to relax or play it cool. I mostly get approached ngl 😅

Like the guy who in 5 th grade snaps your bra strap or punches you in arm because they like you . They don't grow up

I briefly dated a guy like that. He was embarrassing.

i'm the complete opposite of that