Is it a red flag if a woman in her late 20's or early 30's is very inexperienced?
If she spent many years focusing on school/her career, just did not have any interest in dating for a long time, was working on herself?
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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
To me it is. She's only ever done things in her control and never ever had put her self out to be vulnerable which is the entire foundation of a relationship. To me it signals insecurity.
Also. If she meets a man who is well experienced and she's a shy Virgin and know zero about intimacy or a romantic relationship it might not be that appealing to him who's a man expecting a mature woman he's ready to settle down with.
I don't think she's doing anyone any favors by not exploring herself and the world and her body and what she likes and having romantic experiences.
It's just a sexist expired gender role thing that women should be virgin's or "have low body count" it's 2023. Women should be as experienced as men.
The risk for the Virgin woman to someday think "what if..." and get curious about the world and other people is also very big if she enters a serious relationship before she has had any previous experiences.
I think most adults want to meet another adult who's on the same wave length. Experience wise too.
Also. If she meets a man who is well experienced and she's a shy Virgin and know zero about intimacy or a romantic relationship it might not be that appealing to him who's a man expecting a mature woman he's ready to settle down with.
I don't think she's doing anyone any favors by not exploring herself and the world and her body and what she likes and having romantic experiences.
It's just a sexist expired gender role thing that women should be virgin's or "have low body count" it's 2023. Women should be as experienced as men.
The risk for the Virgin woman to someday think "what if..." and get curious about the world and other people is also very big if she enters a serious relationship before she has had any previous experiences.
I think most adults want to meet another adult who's on the same wave length. Experience wise too.
idk why this comment is getting slept on.. @Queendragonfly
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@deathfairy Yeah very silent from everyone in the comments. Maybe they realize how insecure they are if they want a woman who's never been with any other guy.