Is it a red flag if a woman in her late 20's or early 30's is very inexperienced?
If she spent many years focusing on school/her career, just did not have any interest in dating for a long time, was working on herself?
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cerealguy · 26-30, M
Inexperienced in bed vs. inexperienced in how to be a good wife/partner are two totally different leagues of inexperience, mainly because one actually matters in relationships. Personally, I still don't get this whole idea about working on oneself pausing one's dating life. What exactly is one building at this point in time that they "work on" in a career such that it has something to do with a relationship and family? (Assuming it isn't time)
Has she been mentally, emotionally, maturity-wise unfit for a man because of school and career? What exactly changed by a school and career that would make her a better (more mentally, emotionally, mature) spouse and mom?
Because seeking a partner is a totally different aim than career/portfolio building and the two can only interfere with time. And careers don't help relationships work. (Unless that career is actually IN making relationships work [psychiatry, psychology, sociology, relationships, therapy, etc.]). So would it not make more sense to not mention financial careers when discussing dating and relationships and instead focus more on character growth and understanding human relationships and how to make a successful relationship? :o
Has she been mentally, emotionally, maturity-wise unfit for a man because of school and career? What exactly changed by a school and career that would make her a better (more mentally, emotionally, mature) spouse and mom?
Because seeking a partner is a totally different aim than career/portfolio building and the two can only interfere with time. And careers don't help relationships work. (Unless that career is actually IN making relationships work [psychiatry, psychology, sociology, relationships, therapy, etc.]). So would it not make more sense to not mention financial careers when discussing dating and relationships and instead focus more on character growth and understanding human relationships and how to make a successful relationship? :o
cerealguy · 26-30, M
@Spoiledbrat can you be more clear?
[quote]And careers don't help relationships work[/quote]
Was it this you're responding to?
[quote]And careers don't help relationships work[/quote]
Was it this you're responding to?
cerealguy · 26-30, M
@Spoiledbrat hm, I see what you mean
However, I generally do not couple careers with fulfillment and happiness
However, I generally do not couple careers with fulfillment and happiness