Am I tripping?
This past weekend I catch up with a friend and during our lunch I shared with her about another weekend. I shared how a guy told me I was “wifey” material and how I chuckled. Fast forward I was expecting my friend to hype me up as well and be like “ah that’s so cool, or look at you” you know something positive to a guy at the bar calling me wifey material because of how I was dressed modestly at a bar.
On the contrary when I told my friend, she told me “oh wow that guy must have been desperate and guys are desperate.” I had to sit with that for a moment when she said that and think to myself, did she really just say what I think she did. When I asked here did she just hear what she told me she said “I didn’t mean it that way, “ I menat like you got to be careful guys are desperate and will say anything.”
Anywho her explanation didn’t make sense to me. I mean would you get offended or was I overthinking. I just couldn’t figure why she would say guys are desperate when a guy told me I was wifey material instead of saying something positive. 🤔
On the contrary when I told my friend, she told me “oh wow that guy must have been desperate and guys are desperate.” I had to sit with that for a moment when she said that and think to myself, did she really just say what I think she did. When I asked here did she just hear what she told me she said “I didn’t mean it that way, “ I menat like you got to be careful guys are desperate and will say anything.”
Anywho her explanation didn’t make sense to me. I mean would you get offended or was I overthinking. I just couldn’t figure why she would say guys are desperate when a guy told me I was wifey material instead of saying something positive. 🤔
