I read this as she does not think "wifey material" is a compliment, which says more about her and the man at the bar than it does about you.

Maybe she was thinking, "You ARE hot, not frumpy."

Without history, I can't tell how she meant it but if I'm unsure whether something is a compliment or a veiled insult, I accept it as a compliment. Saves emotional energy.

I interpreted in 2 ways. Either she is throwing shades your way, or she is a man hater. She might have had bad experiences with guys. She may be secretly jealous of you, or maybe she thinks you ain’t shit.

Think about it all. Does she have a man? Had any bad breakups? Men harassing her in the past? Is she a loyal friend or is she a snake?

Honestly, I had trouble getting past that he said "wifey". My first thought would have been that if he's going to be a smart ass and use that term, he isn't worth another thought. While you may be a wonderful person and truly be someone who would make an amazing wife, he was a dope and would probably make a terrible husband.

It's you friend you've known ? How long? Does she usually put you down or support? You know her.

Depends on YOUR perspective and if you are