The New Dating Scene - Getting a call from the Police

What do you think of this? My wife's work friend gave a retail employee at Boathouse (clothing store) his number after a couple of visits with his daughter. He just said, "if you want to have a coffee or a drink sometime, give me a call". He is 40 and he figured this employee was in her late 20's due to her looks and the fact that she was working a lunch shift (not in high school or anything).

Later that evening, he got a call from the police telling him that he made her feel uncomfortable and try to stay away from her going forward.

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666Maggotz · F

Tbh same. Middle aged men are creepy.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz But he just gave is number to her; he didn't ask for her number. Is that illegal? Weather he is creepy or not is not really the issue for me.

He is not a creepy guy either.

666Maggotz · F

@JimboSaturn she’s at work. Don’t put a captive audience in that position. We have no choice but to be nice to you.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz I don't think he did though. He just gave his number and left. He left it open for her.

666Maggotz · F

@JimboSaturn again, she’s a captive audience. How do you know if he met her in the streets she wouldn’t tell him to screw off?

666Maggotz · F

@JimboSaturn honestly, as a woman in her mid twenties, I view men in their 40’s+ as sleazy automatically. It’s the age gap for me. Maybe being so old made her uncomfortable.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz Do you think that is rational to think that all men in their 40's as sleazy? So old? lol

666Maggotz · F

@JimboSaturn 40’ is old to someone in their 20’s. My dad is 45. He would be closer to my dads age than mine. THAT is weird to us. It’s sleazy to go after someone so young.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz But you are not automatically a sleaze because you haven't died before you were 40. Being your age is not a fault.

MayorOfCrushtown · M

@666Maggotz you’re 70 though. 😂

666Maggotz · F

@JimboSaturn you are a sleaze for going after someone over a decade younger than you. No one said you have to die. Just keep it age appropriate. Statistics proven women prefer partners a similar age.

666Maggotz · F

@MayorOfCrushtown Very original comment. I never heard that before.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz Well the question is not sleaziness but more should the police be called.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz Well originally you said anyone who is older than 40 is creepy period.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz I do see the point now of it being at work though and that he could have misinterpreted her politeness as interest.

666Maggotz · F

@JimboSaturn I meant in these situations.

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