Were you ever talked to about dating by your parents?

Or told uplifting things on who you were , and what you deserved concerning love?
💙💓💜
I never got a talk on any aspect of myself in relation to guys , dating, or love ...not once. Maybe I would feel a shred of confidence now.😞

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empanadas · 31-35, M

My mom has such a negative view of some Latin American ethnicities. She like don't date venezuelan women, they are cheap whores. Also stay away from Colombians they are all coke heads.

My dad didn't give f*ck. As long as I wasn't bring pregnant women home or gay.

JustGoneNow

@empanadas so no gay women? that makes sense. it’d be hard to start a romantic relationship with one.

empanadas · 31-35, M

@JustGoneNow I meant being gay like doing bring men home. Naw, lesbian women are out of reach

JustGoneNow

@empanadas I know. I was just teasing ya. I know being a gay man in Latino families can be really difficult.

JustGoneNow

@empanadas that actually makes me really sad.

JustGoneNow

@empanadas I don’t know if you’ve seen the show Love, Victor but I can’t even imagine trying to come out as a gay man in a Latino family.

empanadas · 31-35, M

@JustGoneNow I'm not gay though. Just the whole taboo of gay was considered like demonic growing up. Kind of felt sad for people who were gay and grew up in my culture. I have an uncle that's gay. That guy had it rough like real rough.

JustGoneNow

@empanadas I know you’re not. You’ve always been pretty clear on here. Yeah, that’s sad.

empanadas · 31-35, M

@JustGoneNow yeah, my family didn't want their kids near him because they would assume he was a pedo. Glad he's living a good life though now. I'm happy he didn't get lost in drugs tbh.