Awhile back I had a conversation with friends, which brought up what I thought was an interesting question…

If a young man, seeking to date, wants to know what would make him more attractive to women, should he ask his women friends for advice ? Or should he seek advice from male friends who are especially popular with women ?

One friend replied that asking women what women like would make more sense.
But another friend argued that while women could tell him what they found attractive, a popular man, who presumably dated different types of women, perhaps could advise what consistently worked in terms of attracting them.

What do you think makes more sense ?

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dancingtongue · 80-89, M

Input from both could be helpful, but also misleading. Young women tend to burnish the sweet & innocent myth and promote all the goody right things, but why, then, do so many of them date the bad boys? Young men who are players tend to be just that: game players. In my experience, if there is one thing that is attractive to most women it is self-confidence and that only comes from being comfortable within your own skin and being yourself. And only you can decide what that is and project it.