You don’t really know if you’re attracted to someone until you’ve gone on several dates with them

Good advice, yea or nay? Please explain your answer in the comments, that’s why I didn’t include a poll.

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Love or attraction?
I can either instantly or over time feel attraction, it varies. Love however, I think you need to know someone a while.

Theyitis · 36-40, M

@basilfawlty89 I guess I should have provided more context. There’s a girl that I think would like to go out with me, but I don’t really feel attracted to her, I don’t feel motivated to ask her out. Should I do it anyway because “I don’t really know if I’m attracted to her or not because we haven’t gone on multiple dates together yet”?