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Reluctant Date

My cousin wants me to ask a certain girl out on a particular date. This girl is kind and sweet, and I think she likes me but honestly I’m not really attracted to her. The one thing about her that I could point out as a legit reason not to ask her out, though, is that her Facebook profile says she’s a Republican. So I’m not enthused, reluctant in fact, to ask her out, but I get the sense that I should do it anyway.

Then the date that my cousin wants me to ask this girl out on is something I’m even less comfortable with. She wants me to take this chick to a drag brunch. Now I’m not being judgmental here, there’s nothing wrong with drag shows, I just don’t see the appeal. Isn’t it basically like a beauty pageant but with men? What would we do there? Why would we enjoy that?

So any advice would be appreciated, and also any insight on what a drag brunch might entail.
OverTheHill · 56-60, M
Say no. Do something you want on a date.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
The entire thing sounds stupid tbh.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Your sister wants you to take a self described Republican to a drag brunch. ?
Sounds like a set up .
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
@Theyitis plse forgive my confusion. Your cousin sounds like a practical joker. Will probably have you tell the girl the date spot is a surprise too.
AndrewF · 51-55
@AthrillatheHunt I think of the same. Rather get some dates from dating apps. This is one experience you wish you never had.
Theyitis · 36-40, M
@AndrewF I’ve tried several dating apps for [i]years[/i] and not had any luck. Hardly anyone replies to my messages, even if we match.
Tell your cousin:

[quote][b]I won't be asking her out because I just don't feel any chemistry with her[/b][/quote]
Theyitis · 36-40, M
@Threepio A friend once told me you don’t know whether or not you have chemistry with someone until you’ve gone on multiple dates with them. What do you think about that?
@Theyitis I think you said this: [b]honestly I’m not really attracted to her[/b]
Oster1 · M
Nice try, but your post, makes no sense. Why would this woman, even want to attend? Your bias is unbelievable, without logic or reasoning. Why project, such a thing? 🤔
Joe1965 · 56-60, M
hello, at least she's not a crazy moon bat democrat . she may have a lot of common sense .
plungesponge · 41-45, M
She's a Republican. Just add a pride flag to your profile and ask her, and she'll say no
Go out with her, but any place other than the 'drag brunch'
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Ask your cousin why.
Theyitis · 36-40, M
@ninalanyon Well I think I know why. I’ve been single and looking for a woman to date for a long time, and I mentioned to my cousin that I think this girl likes me.

As for why the drag brunch? Well my cousin is a married lesbian, that might be a factor. Also, I want a girlfriend who’s open-minded, so this could be a way to find out what this girl thinks about lgbtq even though she’s a Republican.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@Theyitis That makes more sense, why didn't you say so at the beginning? Then I say just go for it. If it doesn't work out at least you will know a bit more about your self and what a drag brunch might be.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Get some snatch and go home
Lilnonames · F
Is she really a girl?
Theyitis · 36-40, M
@Lilnonames Both my cousin and the girl my cousin wants me to ask out are really girls.

 
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