Real life kisses vs movie kisses

Is there an overlap, ever? Or are movie kisses just meant to look good to the audience rather than mouth open and tongues just randomly flopping against each other? So far I've only experienced the latter and I don't find it stimulating, attractive or arousing, at all. While movie kisses look more sensual, taking their time to really feel the other person.

Was I just unlucky so far in terms of kissing partners (for me, don't want to judge anyone here who enjoy the kissing style mentioned above) or do I simply have the wrong expectations of kissing?

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dale74 · M

Why don't you tell the guy to slow down and take his time you don't eat a steak in 5 min so don't rush this..

Villanelle · 36-40, F

@dale74 good point, but since it wasn't just one person and they all seemed to be enjoying it I don't want to go around dictating how people kiss when it is very well my problem, whatever it is

dale74 · M

@Villanelle I don't know my first girlfriend back when I was a teenager she taught me how to kiss and I've never had any complaints but you just take your time you don't shove your tongue down their mouth you more like enjoy the adventure take your time explore the sites but don't make the other person gag. Kind of like when I give a woman oral