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The guy I’m seeing said it’s best if we didn’t see each other anymore and broke things off. I’m done dating.

He said that it isn’t going to work between us and he’s hurt because he really liked me and he said I pushed him into meeting my family. I told him I didn’t push him I just thought it was important to meet them. I only introduced him to the ones that weren’t racist. He was uncomfortable with my family and when he drove me first that the biggest mistake was meeting them too soon and he needed to think about him and I. He wasn't sure if he wanted to go to the next level after a couple dates then a relationship. He didn’t respond to me for a couple days, yesterday he gave me a cold hello and ignored me for the rest of the day.
Even my older siblings (they’re not racist) told me I shouldn’t have brought him over if I knew how our family is. It was too soon. Kind guy but he wasn’t having a great time. My brother said frankly he doesn’t blame him if he wanted to think about him and I. Last night he texted me that we needed to talk and it’s best that we didn’t see each other anymore. If my family is going to be like that with him and I pushed him into meeting them, then it won’t work. He was blunt about it. He said he really likes me a lot and he felt like I used him to get back at his family. That wasn’t true. Now some of my coworkers give me dirty looks and some won’t even speak to me because of how I treated him. I didn’t use him! I’m done dating. I really liked him! I finally have a great guy and now he doesn’t wanna see me anymore. 😭😭😭
We just dated. Third date cancelled. It was supposed to be last Saturday.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
Already?
Just like that your all done?
So I guess you will be interested in the cat lady starter kit on Amazon now.

Why would he have a problem with you wanting him to meet your family?
Hell, he should have been flattered that you were that excited about him.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet with this guy.
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
Don't give up, this sucks, but carry on!
Renkon · 36-40, M
It's not the end. It's just the beginning.

 
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