This one is for the men.

It seems a lot of you are having trouble in the dating world. Can I ask something? Are you looking for something serious and longterm? And if so, what do you look for in a longterm partner? Also does looks or personality matter the most? And why do you think you’re having a hard time finding a long term partner? Also have you ever had a long term relationship before? Thank you for answering for those who do lol. I’m just curious on the dating life of single men lol. I’m writing a paper, so these answers will give me a bit of insight on the male perspective of dating.

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JestAJester · 31-35, M

i dunno what my problem is. Hard to find anyone actually interested that isn't slutty or boring, hard finding anyone interested period. I suppose my confidence could be lacking but on the other hand asking someone out always results in awkwardness around that person afterward if they say no. The best women are usually taken or claim they are, just their way of telling you no without having to deal with confrontation. I'm sure my approach is probably a huge factor. I'm an awkward dork