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Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend had a male best friend who was straight?

Would it bother you any?
Hatt94 · 56-60, M
Gotta have some trust in a relationship.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
well, i lost my GF to her ex who she claimed was just a friend, so.... yeah id totally trust her, as im poly, and id foster an idea of open-ness with her to tell me if they caught feels and wanted to sax it up
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@DiegoWolfe Would you be happy if you knew for sure she would never wanna sax it up with him?
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
@WendyLopez43 it would be NO hair off my back, as i am poly, and she is perfectly okay to sax or not to sax whomever she desires
ElRengo · 70-79, M
I appreciate and wellcome good friends.
Of course as long as it fiercely keeps my (both) standards for friendship.
What means not even the shadow of flirting, no banter, no 2nd meaning jokes.
I woldn´t get in nor stay whith someone with orbiters.
Loyal friends of any gender are a blessing anyhow.
I’d be suspicious !
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@alan20 you got lucky it sounds like.
alan20 · M
@WendyLopez43 You sound like my mother. After years of a broken heart I still haven't got that far.
alan20 · M
@WendyLopez43 I think my last response was ignorant and offensive. I apologise. You were trying to be supportive. I think nobody owns another. One owes it to one's partner to go into something with one's eyes open.
alan20 · M
Not as long as I could remain as another best friend. Speaking from experience!
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WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Spleenjugholmy who does?
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WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Spleenjugholmy even if you're sure they didn't love each other romantically?
Thespis · M
If I didn't feel like I could trust a GF, It would be time to break up.
Theandyb · 36-40, M
Not really. One of my good friends is female. So yeah
Naw. I’m not a jealous person
Jdl4212000 · 56-60, M
No it does not bother me
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I don't know about "best" friend, but we're allowed to have opposite-sex friends. It doesn't bother me.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@uncalled4 would it have bothered you if she ever did have a male "best" friend?
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@WendyLopez43 I don't think so, though I'd wonder why that chemistry wasn't there if everything else was.

 
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