Starting to feel like I'm pushing myself on him...

He voice notes daily. Although it's usually in response to what he didn't reply to the night before.
On the last two occasions we met I was the one that asked him if we should meet up. For his birthday I asked him weeks in advance if he knew what he was doing, and he said he wasn't sure but would be making some plans.
I thought my excitement showed how much I wanted to spend it with him.
My work meant Saturday I was busy I was travelling the week after then had a work event over 3 days the weekend after.

I really wanted to give him his gift and make it special.
I ended up asking him if we could meet the Wednesday night which was the night before his birthday. I cooked him lamb shank and dauphinoise potatoes. Although he enjoyed the meal he didn't text all day and I took a 'risk' by going up there at the agreed time since I hadn't heard from him.

Even when I text him he said he had just arrived home but needed to shower.

I thought he might suggest we meet this weekend but instead I asked him, he responded saying he was supposed to watch the football and boxing with the boys.
He never mentioned this before and he also told me he's not into football so much so when I had good seats in the executive area he rejected them.

I have text him back telling him not to squeeze me in like he's saying, as I feel like I'm pushing myself on him, and I'd rather not do that.

Maybe he's gone off me, maybe he wants to keep things casual maybe he's met someone else.

Either way it would be nice to know where I stand.
😓