Do you find it flattering or insulting when an ex tries to get with you again?

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helenS · 36-40, F

I'm on very good terms with [most of] my "exes". I still like them very much. We exchange letters, we speak on the phone, and sometimes we meet in person. Nothing is impossible, in that context.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@helenS I'd imagine you would be. I think my first partner thinks more of than my last. I don't fault my last partner, I contributed just as much as her. But one thing I have done in life, they stay in my heart, and if I hear of something they really want in life becoming true, I message them to appreciate

helenS · 36-40, F

@thewindupbirdchronicles I wonder why so many have bad feelings when it's about their ex-partners.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@helenS Somewhere, I feel it will always relate to hurt and how they accept that instead of just seeing they loved once. I really view love, itself, doesn't change in that we loved, but takes new forms.