Are you the type who'd dump someone if you find that they're boring on the first date

Or you'd cheer em up and still go out with them?
Personally I enjoy the company of boring girls, I find em more quite .
Moreover, the fiery moments of excitement won't last. Chill n relaxing vibes r a go for

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

I don’t think it’s really consider dumping them. It’s only the first date. You’re not in a relationship with them. I personally don’t think anyone should continue seeing somebody if you already know you don’t have chemistry. It’s a waste of everyone’s time and energy.

Hassan · 22-25, M

@WhateverWorks haha yea I don't know how to say it.
English isn't my first language remember? I struggle to find words for something I never heard someone saying before.
Ahhh okay it depends on the person then. For me I like their company and boring isn't a negative quality for me . I can introduce them to few things or do what they like and I can still meet them at the lvl they like. I don't force them to fit certain criterias

WhateverWorks · 36-40

I’m not sure that’s fair to them though. Generally, people would rather pair up with someone who considers them interesting to be around. It’s part of valuing and being attracted to them as a person. If you don’t find them interesting naturally someone else out there will. It’s better to let them go so they can meet someone who doesn’t think they are boring. @Hassan

Hassan · 22-25, M

@WhateverWorks tbh I used to be like that now I just want quite people.idc if they think like me or no. Just calm, I long for that quality. People similar to me might be fiery . Maybe describing them as boring is harsh? Well quite,calm, then.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

@Hassan I don’t think someone needs to be a clone to be interesting to each other. I find lots of things interesting that I don’t know very much about. Same goes for my boyfriend. There are a bunch of things about me that are different than the way he thinks or we have different hobbies, but we are still interesting to each other.

Calm might be closer to what you mean maybe where being around the other person is peaceful rather than stressful. Peaceful is good.