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Are you the type who'd dump someone if you find that they're boring on the first date

Or you'd cheer em up and still go out with them?
Personally I enjoy the company of boring girls, I find em more quite .
Moreover, the fiery moments of excitement won't last. Chill n relaxing vibes r a go for
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
If it starts out boring so early on, there's no hoping it will get better. I mean I'm boring myself, I don't necessarily want someone who is all adventure, fierce etc, but someone I can feel that spark with and get excited to meet him again and have things to think about and talk about and analyze in my head. Someone being more quiet and reserved at first isn't necessarily boring either. But being so boring it becomes awkward for the most part shows we're not that compatible and it's a sign that either of us could easily go with someone else just to feel something.
Hassan · 22-25, M
@HannibalAteMeOut yea that's what I mean😁 I don't like people who think orhers exist to entertain them while themselves don't say anything but" say something" "I'm bored"...
They make me feel like they're the center of the universe . I think this kind I'm referring to just want to play which is not wrong n I might be like that...
Well I really hate talkative people who think they're shit but ain't shit .
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
I'm the boring girl. I don't really know what it is but I have no interest or desire to really get involved in anything.
I prefer solitary things.
But what's worse is that I want to be in a relationship and the people I end up being attracted to are out going!
CestManan · 46-50, F
I think people expect too much on a first date.

You do not know the person yet you are suppose to engage like you do know them.
You are nervous but suppose to act relaxed.

A first date should be little more than figuring out if there is maybe something to work with.
Josh1454 · M
Umm if it’s a first date, then it’s not dumping. It’s just not going on a second date. They could be exciting for someone else and I prefer to go our separate ways rather than seeing if they’ll get more exciting.
NickiHijab · F
I'm ok with silence, I don't feel the need to fill it just for the sake of it but as far as first dates go, I feel like there should be at least some flow of conversation.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I don’t think it’s really consider dumping them. It’s only the first date. You’re not in a relationship with them. I personally don’t think anyone should continue seeing somebody if you already know you don’t have chemistry. It’s a waste of everyone’s time and energy.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I’m not sure that’s fair to them though. Generally, people would rather pair up with someone who considers them interesting to be around. It’s part of valuing and being attracted to them as a person. If you don’t find them interesting naturally someone else out there will. It’s better to let them go so they can meet someone who doesn’t think they are boring. @Hassan
Hassan · 22-25, M
@WhateverWorks tbh I used to be like that now I just want quite people.idc if they think like me or no. Just calm, I long for that quality. People similar to me might be fiery . Maybe describing them as boring is harsh? Well quite,calm, then.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
@Hassan I don’t think someone needs to be a clone to be interesting to each other. I find lots of things interesting that I don’t know very much about. Same goes for my boyfriend. There are a bunch of things about me that are different than the way he thinks or we have different hobbies, but we are still interesting to each other.

Calm might be closer to what you mean maybe where being around the other person is peaceful rather than stressful. Peaceful is good.
I like boring men. You can impress and connect without being a spectacle.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
Two boring people can still engage each other if they have the right chemistry.
caccoon · 36-40
It's not considered dumping if it's a first date.

You're getting to know one another

 
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