Have you ever dated a total stranger you met online?

@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON I have found, the more sexually erotic a guy is the more insightful and intelligent he is. Sweet, affectionate men are a turn on and more prone to try more erotic, incredibly exciting sex acts. Exploring things I've fantasized but never tried.

@Grateful4you I have a lot of thoughts on this, regarding heterosexual guys.

But I am going to eat now and I am sorry, I can't write a novel and it's too personal and/ or weird.

Hugs, L.🌻🌞

@OldMan70 I certainly admire your forthright, well- grounded sense of self and totally rational sense of others. While far more experienced in terms of types of relationships than I have had your expressed sexual preference'(s) is about as healthy, well balanced and love of experimenting different combinations of partners is about as healthy and "normal" as it could possibly get.

You obviously have no interest in labels, they serve no functional purpose. I love that you seem to have a very tolerant world view I wish was shared by the human race in general. I have had casual sex with guys I've met in a bar. For the most part, I have found these experiences rather dull and lackluster, while not disturbing neither have they been sexually exciting or erotic. I require the element of excitement, real passion and the desire to really make a variety of sex acts actually feel good. Feel truly satisfying. I want to create a lusty, erotic fantasy a guy can look back on with satisfaction for decades to come.

I would like to be a sexual role model so others can enjoy healthy, stable romantic and/or physical lovemaking as an expression of beautiful art forms. I love the idea of sexual experimenting , I'm not aroused by the idea of "Golden showers" but if you are I might be willing to play a part to satisfy you. I am exclusively a top man and never go both ways. I try to remember informing the potential partner ahead of time so there is no awkward moments before lovemaking starts.

I'm a big fan of foreplay and find that it helps stimulate a mutual, sexually exciting pairing or triad, or whatever creative groupings. Afterplay is also a nice way to express warmth and tenderness, giving attention to the partner(s) that their efforts resulted in a most rewarding sexual session that was far more than a "quickie" that will be soon forgotten.

These are but a few considerations. I can't stress enough how important an active, satisfying sex life is. It keeps a person both mentally and physically healthy. Never hesitate letting a partner know of some alternative sex act you have entertained but never acted on. It might be that this particular sex act is something your partner has been anxious to try but too afraid to make the suggestion.

Play safe and live long. Feel free to make additional remarks.

Thank you'all and especially the Old Man 70 continue to enjoy your creative sex life.