One of my cousins told me I’m shallow for having a checklist on the guy I want. Do you think she’s right?

I mean yea there’s no such think as the perfect relationship or perfect guy but I want to be happy. Just because he’s a nice guy doesn’t mean I want him. Sounds shallow but there has to be an attraction and spark.

He has to be:
A great personality
Similar to me
Healthy/a little muscular
Smoking’ hot but not TOO hot
6ft or taller (don’t worry I’ve dated a guy shorter than me)
Make me laugh
Successful
Kind but assertive
Hot accent

Everyone has preferences right but she told me sternly, “I think you BETTER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS! Those sound shallow and you’ll never find love if you stick with the checklist!.”

I couldn’t say anything. She shut me up so much. I told her, “At least I’m being honest. I have preferences….”
She cut me off said, “Yeah, shallow and picky. Lay off the checklist or you’re going to be a single old woman that is too stubborn to see the real love.”
She shut me up again. She’s savage and quick witted.